About this podcast

In this powerful episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty tackles one of the most challenging aspects of human connection: the struggle to change others. He delves into the psychology of why we cling to someone's potential rather than accepting their reality, often rooted in our own unmet needs or fear of loneliness. Jay challenges the notion that trying to change someone is an act of love, revealing it as a form of control that prevents us from confronting our own discomfort. Listeners will discover how to identify destructive patterns over empty promises, practice radical acceptance without lowering personal standards, and differentiate between genuine love and controlling behaviors. This episode offers crucial insights on when to step back or let go, emphasizing that true change stems from shared commitment, not endless pressure or persuasion. Ultimately, Jay encourages listeners to love others as they are, or love themselves enough to walk away, fostering personal growth and self-respect in any relationship journey.